Life with thatgirlcarmel: Dec. 2015
Welcome to 2016 – I hope you had an amazing holiday! Jave and I returned from Jamaica late last week where we spent a week at home in Westmoreland for Christmas before heading off for a weeklong road trip around the island. We celebrated the New Year quietly in Treasure Beach, a beautiful town in the Jamaican countryside that boasts a scenic seaside.
After spending two nights in Treasure Beach, we went on to spend two nights in Kingston, two nights in some beach cottages in Portland Parish, a night in Ocho Rios, and one last night on the beach in Negril. What an adventure! I’ll be sharing more about some of the high points and challenges we faced during our road trip in upcoming posts, but for now I’ll just say that I’m so grateful that we came full circle without incident and that I got to see more of Jave’s stunningly beautiful island.
Of course, it was also really good to spend the holidays with Jave’s family; it was Jave’s first Christmas home since he immigrated to the U.S. in 2009. It goes without saying that being married to a Jamaican gives me so much insight into local life beyond the beaches and resorts, and my first Christmas with my Jamaican family was beyond authentic, with a boiling cup of mannish water and all! Despite avoiding the bits of tongue and other goat head parts swimming in my soup, my usually resilient stomach wasn’t able to handle it, and I found myself on the verge of death late on Christmas night. Unable to ignore my groans, Jave kept peeping into the bathroom to see how I was doing. I told him to leave the door closed and let me die with dignity. Mannish water…never again.
One great thing about traveling to Jamaica is the fact that it’s probably the one destination where I truly feel like I’m on vacation whenever we visit. Before our trip, my brother, Jave and I were talking about the fact that our travels are anything but a vacation. In fact, when we return from our trips, we often feel like we need a vacation from our “vacation,” the reason being that we travel to have rich experiences beyond lying on a beach sipping piña coladas all day. We usually travel with a packed itinerary as we try to squeeze as much as possible into as little time as possible. Usually, time flies by so fast during our travels, but when we go home to Jamaica, it’s as if time stands still. I always return from Jamaica three shades darker (which I love!), well rested, and well fed. Jamaica is definitely my go to destination for a true vacation.
Our trip to Jamaica also gave Jave and I a lot of time to brainstorm the steps we need to take to accomplish certain monthly goals that we now outline on our recently purchased monthly goals board which hangs on our kitchen wall. On the left side of the board, we pin pictures of things we want to manifest (currently, the board features pictures of renovated bathrooms and our dream home), and on the right side of the board, we write down all the steps we need to take to bring our vision to life. I absolutely LOVE having this board because it helps us to keep our goals as a couple at the forefront of our minds every single day, and because we get a kick from crossing off steps as we accomplish them.
As you know, during the first week of December, we also took a quick, week long jaunt to the UAE. I’ll be sharing more about our time in Dubai and Abu Dhabi in upcoming posts along with details from the rest of our 2015 travels.
Last but not least, one of my more popular posts from a few years back, “Why We Chose Nicaragua & Why You Should Too”, was featured in a Caribbean foodie roundup in Canadian Traveller magazine. Check it out here.